How to act?
Hello ! I urgently need advice. I'll start from the beginning: The fact is that I liked one girl. We talked with her for about a month, or a little more (+ 10 days). At first everything was fine, we walked, we communicated well, in general everything was fine. But then I had strong feelings for her. And as a result, a week ago I decided to tell her about my feelings. Then, her communication with me abruptly turned to "do not care." In some places she ignored my messages, somewhere she did not write at all, but for a long time they didn’t even speak at all (2 days somewhere). Then I wrote to her: (Name), let's talk to you seriously. Well, we talked, but her answer was that she sees me as a friend now and as a friend in the future. Well, as she said, I was very quick to express my feelings. But the problem is that I do not want to just give up and leave with nothing. I want to achieve it by any means. Tell me how I can communicate with her further to get out of the zone of friends, how to hook her feelings and in general show her interest in me?
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Answered on November 13, 2015 14:59
The girls like compliments. Yes, of course you hurried up early for you, these feelings were expressed very early and she doesn’t have to, so you had to wait until she showed interest to you. If she refuses to give her compliments, I don’t know what she likes there so I namknula you and now your action Go right, how do you count the first thoughts always right, so you have to write hearts and show her
Answered on November 16, 2015 07:54
Yes, you are too hurried + all the girls are different: some then fall in love with their friends, some, if not hooked at once, will have nothing. My opinion "you will not be forcefully beloved," just communicate and build warm and friendly relations with her further. What will happen next - time will tell, maybe her attitude will change. Since you have already confessed right off the bat, the unobtrusive, increasing with time courtship, when you have been given to understand that they treat you as a friend, can be annoying. Therefore, just make friends with her for real, and not just be an interlocutor, but do not stuff a person with your love if she does not need it. Let her know that you are always there and benevolently disposed, but you will not be forced upon her and disturb you if she does not need your attention. Wait and see what happens.