Why am I such a fool?
No matter who you are - girl or boy. Here you will get explanations and tips for yourself.
In your head now only one thought is spinning: "well, why am I such a fool!". She does not give you rest. You want to cry, beat your head against the wall, or just fall asleep for a few days, then wake up and forget everything. And the main thing is that everyone else should also remember nothing! Lord, well, how do you want to start from scratch, turn back time ...
Say "do not worry, you're not stupid" can all. How they are furious, because I know that right now I am such a fool! So ... you need another now. We need explanations, advice, help at last!
Why am I a fool?
Of course, you can take the test on the Internet "why am I so stupid?", But there are plenty of reasons for this. For example, you decided that with this guy you can lose your virginity: he likes you and gives you flowers and calls forever ... And you see, after your “second time”, you had a thought that he was not walking yet, he was young they say Here I am a fool, you think! And in fact it was visible to everyone except me ... oh, it's me!
Or he calls you already the fourth time to invite somewhere, and you break. Because the fifth time is a diamond! Yes, and the girls tell you, let him run, fall in love more.And he, it turns out, already went on vacation ... alone, did not have time to call for the fifth time and to call you to him. And again to the whole apartment: "well, I'm a fool!".
"Do not worry," the man will tell you, explaining that all women are fools. Go to your friend, she will tell you that we are not fools, but cute, tender and trusting.
What if I'm a fool?
I want to congratulate you. You have gained tremendous experience and you are not falling into a similar situation anymore. Now take a piece of paper and divide it in half with a vertical line. Write down the minuses of the incident in the left column, and pluses in the right one. Try to think about what happened in detail. Write down even the most stupid moments. This will help you relax, look at the problem from a reasonable side without emotion. You will not suppress these emotions in yourself, but you will famously explain them to yourself and accept them! And next time in a similar situation you will not end up such a fool.
Why are all women such fools?
Everyone has long known that girls and boys build logical chains in their heads in different ways. And the length of the chains is not the same. The girl will search for all the huge number of reasons and sub-reasons, think about the double meaning of what has been said, come up with cunning hints.The man is all the easier and more rectilinear. Where the easiest way is needed, a woman will wind herself up with ingenious variations of a complex path. Therefore, men often think that their wife is such a fool. We find it difficult to understand each other, because we think in different ways.
What should I say! It can be difficult for women to understand themselves, but after that it is easy to believe that women are such fools!
Now more specifically ... If your girlfriend is a fool
You are not a stupid, handsome, young guy, and with a sense of humor. It is clear why she began to meet with you. But why are you so cool chose her - a fool? I guess you got excited. Nastya, Julia Katya ... fools, because they did something wrong? You can advise to start to discuss everything. After all, often people do not even realize that some things did not like his beloved. In one instructive story tells about a married couple who lived together for 50 years. And on this anniversary day, the wife wakes up in the morning, goes as usual to the kitchen to prepare breakfast for her beloved husband. It cuts off a fresh crusty crust for her husband from a fresh tasty bun, and the thought comes to her: "I give the most delicious crust to my husband for 50 years, and the worse for me, today I will eat it!".When my husband came into the kitchen, he could not believe his eyes and was surprised: “Darling, today you gave me the softest part of a bun. Tell me, why did you take revenge on me for all these years with your callous mouth?”
If it seems that your girl is a fool, talk to her about what does not suit you before leaving her.